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We all find it difficult to say no to kids sometimes. - but saying yes to everything can be disastrous. Here's some advice on how to deal with children's demands...
- Setting boundaries and saying 'no' in early childhood is essential for parents who want to avoid having unruly teenagers.
- Children appreciate the truth so don't be afraid to be honest
- If you can't afford the treat they are begging for, then let them know. And if you don't want them to go out explain why.
- Shouting gives the impression that you are out of control and kids are less likely to respect your decision.
- You can be much more effective if you say 'no' in a calm, gentle way. Remember - treating them with respect teaches them respect.
- Never fall into the trap of bribery - if you try and distract your child with an ice cream or chocolate, it essentially means they've won. And, believe me, they will try it on again.
- Focus on the positive. It's always better to tell children what you want rather than what you don't want: 'Such as please sit at the table and eat your dinner" rather than "stop wriggling in your seat"
- Encourage your kid's individuality and point out what they have that makes them unique to help them avoid following the crowd.
